DARSE JAMIUT TIRMIZI ,CHAPTER : NIKAH , DAY : 247,

Hazrat Anas Bin Malik(raziyallahunhu) se rivayat hai,kaha,Rasool e Akram

(Sallallahualihwasallam) ne Hazrat Abdur Rahman Bin Awf(raziyallahuanhu) ke Badan per Peele Rang(Yellow Colour) ka Asar dekha,to farmaya ye kiya hai ? To aapne kaha,Mera ek Ladki se Nikah hogaya hai,to aapne Kaha,Aap ek Bakri hi kyu na us se Valimah karo.
(Vol/1,H,No :1117),
Dars : To is Hadees me Valimah ke Bare me bayan kiya gaya hai,ke :
VALIMAH KARNA SUNNAT hai,Wajib Nahi hai,
■■ Baaz Kahte hai,ke Valimah keliye Miya Bivi ka Milna Zaroori hai,Warna Valimah Jayiz Nahi hai ?
Jawab : Valimah keliye Miya Bivi Ki Qurbat Zaroori Nahi hai,kyu ke Valimah Sunnat hai,uskeliye Sohbat Shart Nahi hai,kyu ke Kisi bhi Hadees me Sohbat ki shart Nahi ayi hai,
●● Valimah Doosre Din bhi karsakte hain,aur Teesre din bhi karsakte hain,agar ek week ke baad kare to wo Sirf dawat hogi.
■■ Valimah Shohar ki Janib se hoga,Bivi ki Janib se Nahi,
♢♢ Peela Rang Yani Haldi etc..ka istemal mard waqti taur per karsakta hai,lekin Mahendi lagane ki ijazat Nahi hai.
Allah Sabko Nek Taufeeq de..Ameen