*** DARSE JAMIUT TIRMIZI *** CHAPTER : NIKAH , DAY : 270,

Hazrat Abu Hurairah(raziyallahuanhu) se rivayat hai,kaha,Rasool e Akram
(Sallallahualihwasallam) ne farmaya : 3 Baate aysi hai,Jisko Sonch Samajh kare ya Mazaq se kare wo hojati hain :
1) Nikah,
2) Talaq,
3) Talaq ke Baad Bivi ko Lautalena.
(Vol/1,H,No :1221),
Dars : Pahli Cheez Nikah hai,Ye 2 Jaano aur 2 Khandano se Muta’alq hota hai,to Nikah ko Sonch Samajh kar kare ya Mazaq se bhi Karle to Nikah hojata hai,Magar uske Poore Sharte bhi hona Zaroori hai,
Iska Doosra Mafhoom ye bhi hai,ke Mazaq ka matlab,Nikah aur sab kuch hone ke Baad Ladka Ya Ladki kahrahe hai,ke..Abba Bole the ya Bahen bole the,ya Mama Force kare the…etc…etc..ki baate bana kar Bivi ko satana bhi Nahi hai,kyu ke Nikah hochuka hai,Mazaq Nahi…!!!!
Aysi Baate hone keliye kayi Wujoohaat hosakte hai,Baaz Ladko me Ladke Ko Jo Gadi pasand thi wo Na mili ho ya Nikah se pahle Koi aur Pasand the ho..etc..
Aur Ladki ko Ghumane Phirane wala Shohar Na mila ho,Ya Uski Baat Sunne wala Na ho,Maa ke Ghar Baar Baar Na lejata ho,etc..etc..Jo Ke aaj ek mahol bana huva hai,
To Hamari Guzarish hai,ke Ladka ho ya Ladki Nikah koi Mazaq aur Dil lagi Nahi hai,isko badi Sanjeedgi se Nibhana hota hai,Nikah se pahle hi,aur Nikah ke Baad me bhi sab baate sonch samajh kar Nipatle to Baad me Dono ki zindagi Khush Haali me guzregi Warna Dunya me Hi Jahannam Nazar ayegi,aur Dono ki Zindagi Tabah wa Barbad hojayegi,
(Mazirat ye jumleh Aaj ke Halaat ko dekhte huve kahna padh raha hai..),
■■ Talaq Sonch Samajh kar de ya Mazaq se dono soorato me bhi talaq hojayegi,
●● 1 Talaq ke Baad Bivi ko lautane ka bhi yahi Hukm hai,,
Allah Hame Nek Taufeeq ata kare..Ameen.